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The Overthinker's Handbook

by Angelika Koch & Tiara Cosme
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About the show

You are not overthinking because you are broken. You are overthinking because life keeps handing you complicated situations with absolutely no instruction manual. Welcome to The Overthinker’s Handbook, the podcast for anyone who has ever replayed a conversation 47 times, tried to understand someone who makes absolutely no sense, questioned their own reactions, or wondered, What am I supposed to do with this? Hosted by relationship and breakup coach Angelika Koch, The Overthinker’s Handbook is a raw, honest, and sometimes uncomfortably relatable exploration of relationships, attachment, heartbreak, identity, confidence, mental health, work, wellness, and the strange realities of being human. We talk about the big heartbreaks and the oddly specific struggles nobody seems to prepare you for: emotional unavailability, anxious and avoidant attachment, starting over after a breakup, dating, friendships, family patterns, women navigating professional spaces, burnout, body changes, self-image, loneliness, healing, and everything that happens in between.

Latest episodes

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  • Behind the Glamour: The Brutal Reality of Working in Hollywood

    September 12, 2026 · 55 min

    What is it really like to be a woman working behind the scenes in Hollywood? In this episode of The Overthinker’s Handbook, Angelika sits down with Los Angeles-based creative producer Tiara Cosme for an honest conversation about working in…

  • 10 Signs You’re Losing Yourself to a Dopamine-Chasing Avoidant

    September 5, 2026 · 27 min

    What if the reason your relationship feels so exhausting isn’t because you’re asking for too much, but because you’re desperately trying to keep someone interested who is addicted to the high of the chase? If you’ve noticed your partner…

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    Does your partner actually love you, or are they addicted to the dopamine high they get from chasing you?  If someone was intensely interested in you in the beginning but suddenly became distant, bored, inconsistent, or emotionally…

  • 10 Signs Your Relationship Is OVER

    August 22, 2026 · 15 min

    Sometimes a relationship does not end when someone walks out the door. It ends when you hope begins to fade when stop believing their promises, and start feeling more alone beside them than you would on your own. You may still be together…

  • Does Your Avoidant Ex Still Love You? 10 Signs They Do

    August 15, 2026 · 17 min

    Does your avoidant ex still have feelings for you? If you’re trying to understand the signs an avoidant misses you, why an avoidant comes back after a breakup, or why they suddenly start reaching out after pulling away, this episode breaks…