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Create More Intimacy: A Podcast for Men

by Alisa Stoddard

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You Haven't Done Anything. You're Afraid You Will | Ep 78

October 23, 2026 · 18 min

You haven't done anything. But you're afraid you might. Maybe you check your phone hoping a particular name shows up. Maybe you feel more like yourself in twenty minutes with someone else than you have in months at home. Or maybe you've…
"Just Tell Me What to Do" (and Why It Backfires) | Ep 77

October 16, 2026 · 24 min

"Just tell me what to do. I'll do anything." You meant it. So why did she look more tired instead of relieved? In this episode, we'll look at why that offer so often lands as more work for her, and what's missing when a man is doing more…
She Said Yes to Thursday. You Said Nothing | Ep 76

October 9, 2026 · 19 min

You scheduled sex so you wouldn't have to keep asking. Then the night came, you spent the day reading her mood, you waited for her to start, and nothing happened. Now it feels like proof that she doesn't want you. In this episode we'll…
The Advice That Told You to Stop Caring | Ep 75

October 2, 2026 · 21 min

Somebody finally told you it wasn't your fault. Stop chasing her. Be more dominant. Don't text back right away. Let her wonder where you are. For a lot of men, this kind of online advice arrives at exactly the moment they feel most…
You Thought She Wanted You in Better Shape | Ep 74

September 25, 2026 · 21 min

You got in shape. You changed your body with real discipline. And at home, almost nothing changed. When a wife pulls away physically, many men decide the problem is attraction, and the gym becomes the fix. It's measurable, it's private…

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Stop Asking If You're Normal | Ep 73

September 18, 2026 · 15 min

Is it normal to barely have sex in marriage? In this episode, we'll cover why a real, credible statistic about married couples still can't answer that question for you, and why chasing that number can quietly work against you, both with…
What You're Really Asking For | Ep 72

September 11, 2026 · 16 min

You keep hinting. She keeps not picking up on it. Underneath both of your frustration is a question neither of you has said out loud: what are you really asking for? In this episode, we'll cover why hinting instead of asking directly…
Right or Happy | Ep 71

September 4, 2026 · 18 min

There's a window, ten to twenty seconds, where your body decides what happens next in an argument, before you're even aware you're reacting. This week we'll cover what's actually happening in that window, why explosion and shutdown are the…
The Moment Before You Explode or Go Quiet | Ep 70

August 28, 2026 · 19 min

There's a moment right before you explode or shut down where your nervous system decides the conversation isn't safe. Most men never see that moment, only what comes after it. In this episode, we'll cover: What's actually happening in…
She's Still Watching for the Old You | Ep 69

August 21, 2026 · 16 min

He said the wrong thing at dinner. Nothing big, just a flash of impatience. But she saw it, and weeks of steady change seemed to disappear from how she looked at him. If you've done real work to change how you show up and it still feels…
Living in the Gap | Ep 68

August 14, 2026 · 18 min

Why Do You Need Her to Notice You've Changed? You've been doing the work. Staying calm when it used to wreck you. Catching the old reaction before it takes over. And she still looks at you like she's waiting to see if it's real. This…
Why She Still Doesn't Trust the New You | Ep 67

August 7, 2026 · 15 min

You've been showing up differently, calmer, more consistent, more present. And instead of trust, you're getting watched like she's waiting for the old you to show back up. In this episode, we'll cover why trust doesn't arrive the moment…

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About the show

Struggling to fix the distance in your marriage - even though you’ve tried everything? You’re not alone. This podcast is for high-achieving men who want more intimacy, better communication, and a stronger emotional connection with their wives. I’m Alisa, a certified relationship coach for men. I help husbands stop chasing sex and start creating real connection. Each week, you’ll get straight-talking, practical advice to help you feel more respected, appreciated, and connected at home. Whether you’re dealing with emotional disconnection, constant tension, or feeling unwanted - this podcast will help. You don’t need to walk on eggshells. You need a better way forward. And I’ll show you how.