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THE VIBRANT SURVIVOR -How to Identify a Narcissist, Narcissistic Abuse, Toxic Relationships, Trauma Healing, Health, Wellness

by Lesley Cain - Health and Wellness Coach, Trauma Informed Coach, Healthy Boundaries Coach

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Latest episodes

  • 202. The Guilt Narcissistic Abuse Survivors Feel When Life Gets Better

    October 16, 2026 · 22 min

    Hey, Survivor! Have you ever started feeling better after narcissistic abuse, a toxic relationship, or a traumatic season of life—only to feel guilty for being happy? Maybe you're enjoying your newly-found freedom, reconnecting with…

  • 201. Why Healing Isn't About Going Back to Who You Were

    October 9, 2026 · 20 min

    Hey, Survivor! Have you ever wondered when you'll finally feel like yourself again after narcissistic abuse, toxic relationships, or trauma?  Healing can leave us longing for the person we were before—when we trusted more easily, felt…

  • 200. Why Healing Changes Your Relationships

    October 2, 2026 · 17 min

    Hey, Survivor! Has your healing changed your relationships? Relationship changes are a natural part of narcissistic abuse recovery.  Your tolerance for toxic people and relationships, your boundaries, your connections to others, and…

  • 199. What France and Morocco Taught Me About Healing

    September 25, 2026 · 19 min

    Hey, Survivor! What can travel teach us about healing? France and Morocco, taught me some lessons about trauma recovery, self-regulation, boundaries, rest, resilience, and joy. In this episode, I’m sharing how healing creates…

  • 198. The Myth Of Getting Over It

    September 18, 2026 · 16 min

    Hey, Survivor! Have you been told to “get over it and move on,” after narcissistic abuse?   Healing is not about forgetting.  In this episode, I explore grief, triggers, expectations, and why recovery from trauma isn’t linear. If you…

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  • 197. When Someone Else's Emergency Becomes Your Lifestyle

    September 11, 2026 · 16 min

    Hey, Survivor! Are you trapped in chronic crisis management? In this episode, I’m exploring hyper-responsibility, rescuing patterns, caregiving stress, and how to reclaim your life without abandoning your compassion. If you are stuck in…

  • 196. Why Big Life Transitions Can Trigger Old Trauma

    September 4, 2026 · 15 min

    Hey, Survivor! Why do exciting new opportunities sometimes create anxiety? In this episode, I’m exploring the connection between trauma, uncertainty, nervous system activation, and major life transitions.  Reframing old narratives and…

  • 195. What No One Tells You About Caring for an Aging Parent

    August 28, 2026 · 20 min

    Hey, Survivor! Are you in a season of caregiving?  A card-carrying member of the sandwich generation?  You’re not alone! In this episode, I’m sharing some lessons I’m learning while co-caring for my mom, who is living with dementia.  I…

  • 194. The People Who Don't Understand Trauma

    August 21, 2026 · 15 min

    Hey, Survivor! How do you feel, when other people don’t get you? Trauma is often misunderstood by friends, family members, and even helping professionals.  It can feel frustrating, invalidating, and discouraging. In this episode, I talk…

  • 193. When You Run Into The Narcissist Again

    August 14, 2026 · 23 min

    Hey, Survivor! Have you ever unexpectedly run into the narcissistic or toxic individual who hurt you? Do you feel conflicted over whether or not to embrace them…literally? What does that feel like in your body? In this episode, I’m…

  • 192. When It's Finally Your Turn

    August 7, 2026 · 21 min

    Hey, Survivor! After years of surviving, healing, caregiving, and helping others, many narcissistic abuse survivors struggle with something unexpected: receiving. In this episode, I’m exploring why joy, rest, opportunities, and even…

  • 191. Trauma Is Not What Happened To You!

    July 31, 2026 · 15 min

    Hey, Survivor! What is trauma really? In this episode, I share a recent personal experience with a trauma response and explain an important distinction: trauma is not what has happened to you—it's your body's response to what…

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About the show

***TOP 1.5% PODCAST*** Heal and thrive after narcissistic abuse. Do you want to disconnect from narcissistic or toxic relationships? Are you feeling stressed and lonely in dysfunctional family and work environments, or social groups? Are you ready to heal and thrive after narcissistic abuse? In this podcast, you’ll find holistically healing solutions to set you free from narcissistically abusive relationships, trauma-related health issues, and the enabling of toxic behavior. My mission is to help you heal and thrive after narcissistic abuse through holistic health, trauma support, and boundaries. If you’re ready to disconnect from dysfunction, prioritize your healing, and reclaim your power after narcissistic abuse, then you’re in the right place! Hi, I’m Lesley. A wife, mom, and narcissistic abuse survivor. For years, I rationalized toxic relationships and dysfunctional environments, in an effort to find connection, purpose, success, and peace. I fell for lies, fake opportunities, and empty promises, wasting my time, talents, and money. It took a toll on my mental health (Hello, CPTSD!); and it almost cost me my life…literally. I finally realized that if I was going to break the cycle and heal my childhood trauma from the inside out, I needed a holistic approach. I reclaimed and redirected my resources towards solutions that helped me to put the narcissistic and toxic people in my life in my rear-view mirror. After applying some stealthy strategies for drama-free exits, protecting my peace, and pursuing my goals, I was determined to help others to identify, navigate, and heal from this insidious form of abuse. I went to school and became a Master Certified Health Coach and Certified Trauma Support Specialist. And I’m here to teach you how to heal and thrive after narcissistic abuse. If you’re ready to experience healing and empowerment after narcissistic abuse that focuses on YOU; holistic health and wellness solutions with real results like more clarity, discernment, confidence, a more positive mindset, healthy boundaries, and better relationships – this podcast is for you! Take a deep breath in…Let it out slowly…And just relax, this time is for you. Contact: support@lesleycain.com Instagram: @thevibrantsurvivor ***DISCLAIMER: This podcast is for educational purposes only. Any reliance you place on this information is strictly at your own risk. Lesley Cain is not a doctor, therapist or counselor. If you need healthcare, medical attention, therapy, or counseling, please seek professional help from a licensed practitioner.