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Vol XXXI: Failure
May 19, 2026 · 53 minWe are told that failure builds character, that it teaches resilience and it points the way forward. But in real life, failure is usually less inspiring than that. It is embarrassing, exposing and harder to learn from than the slogans…
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Vol XXX: Trauma and EMDR
May 12, 2026 · 1 hr 2 minIn this episode, Antonia and Jacqui explore the shift from the older, more clinical definition of trauma to a broader, more psychologically nuanced understanding: that trauma is not only about what happened, but about what happened inside…
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Vol XXIX: Forgiveness
May 5, 2026 · 1 hr 3 minForgiveness is often spoken about as a virtue, but in real life it can feel messy, resistant, and anything but straightforward. In this episode, Antonia and Jacqui unpack what forgiveness actually is, why it matters for our mental and…
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Vol XXVIII: Comms 101
April 27, 2026 · 1 hr 3 minFor something so ordinary, communication is anything but simple. We tend to think of poor communication as a dramatic failure. A screaming match, a betrayal, a rupture…but the reality is it is often far more subtle than that. It lives in…
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Vol XXVII: Is My Relationship Good Enough
April 21, 2026 · 1 hr 10 minHow do you know if you’re in a good relationship…Not a perfect one, but a genuinely good enough one? In this episode, Antonia and Jacqui take that question seriously and pull it apart with far more honesty than romance culture usually…
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Vol XXVI: Ambition
April 14, 2026 · 53 minAmbition is one of those qualities we are taught to admire almost without question. In this episode, Antonia and Jacqui unpack ambition as both a personality trait and a cultural obsession. They explore the difference between intrinsic…
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Vol XXV: I Am Not Where I Thought I Would Be
August 14, 2025 · 57 minThere can be a particular kind of melancholy that settles in when you catch your reflection in the mirror of your life and realize it looks different from the blueprint you once carried so confidently. The slow-dawning awareness that…
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Vol XXIV: Navigating Change: Why It's So Hard and How to Move Forward
August 7, 2025 · 48 minChange is the one thing we count on in life and yet it gets easier. Whether it's a career shift, a new relationship, a move, or just a subtle shift in priorities, change has a way of throwing us off balance. In this episode of What…
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Vol XXIII: Why Setting Boundaries Feels So Hard (And How to Do It Anyway)
July 31, 2025 · 54 minIn this episode of What Matters Most, Antonia and Jacqui tackle one of psychology's most misunderstood concepts: boundaries. Despite becoming a pop psychology buzzword, the reality of setting healthy boundaries is far more nuanced than…
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Vol XXII: How to Be a Good Friend
July 24, 2025 · 53 minIn the hierarchy of modern relationships, friendship occupies a peculiar position: essential to our wellbeing, central to our happiness, yet always relegated to the emotional back burner when life gets serious. Romance gets the red carpet…
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Vol XXI: Control - Why We Seek it..And How To Let Go
July 17, 2025 · 1 hr 0 minOriginally inspired by Mel Robbins ‘Let Them Theory’ in this episode of What Matters Most, Antonia and Jacqui dive into the psychology of control; why we crave it, where it comes from, and how it can impact our lives and relationships…
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Vol XX: Perfectionism: When Excellence Becomes Prison
July 10, 2025 · 53 minThis week, Antonia and Jacqui perform surgery on one of society's most beloved obsessions. It’s the quiet saboteur of your happiness, hiding behind seemingly admirable qualities like ambition and high standards. It can push you to achieve…

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