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Porn, Betrayal, Sex and the Experts — PBSE

by Steve Moore & Mark Kastleman

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Latest episodes

The POWER of Having & Moving Toward Your True Coupleship's Vision!

October 26, 2026 · 39 min

(Episode 356) When pornography addiction, sexual betrayal, dishonesty, and emotional neglect have devastated a relationship, the recovery and healing journey can easily become consumed with everything that's WRONG. The focus becomes…
His Betrayal Didn't Just Destroy Our Marriage—It Stole the Joy of Motherhood!

October 19, 2026 · 37 min

(Episode 355) Can betrayal trauma become so severe that it robs a mother of the emotional connection and joy she expected to experience with her own child? In this powerful PBSE episode, we respond to a betrayed partner whose husband has…
How Unresolved Trauma Can DERAIL Recovery & Relationships!

October 12, 2026 · 35 min

(Episode 354) What happens when someone who has been sober from pornography or sexual addiction for ten years suddenly begins exhibiting the same unhealthy behaviors that once accompanied their addiction? In this episode, we address a…
He Knew Porn Was a Dealbreaker—So Why Did He Marry Me Without Telling Me?

October 5, 2026 · 45 min

(Episode 353) A betrayed partner discovered after nearly eleven years of marriage that her husband had maintained a secret pornography addiction for more than twenty-five years. What makes the betrayal especially devastating is that he…
My Mother & Friends Think I'm Naive & Stupid for Staying with an Addict—Am I?!

September 28, 2026 · 43 min

(Episode 352) A betrayed partner wrote to us because, although her addict partner has recently become more proactive in recovery, she worries that her mother and friends now see her as weak, naive, or stupid for staying. Her mother…

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He Spent Decades Secretly Lusting—Now He Says Other Women Repulse Him—Should I Believe Him?

September 22, 2026 · 44 min

(Episode 351) A betrayed partner wrote to us about her husband’s roughly 33-year history of hidden lust addiction and a specific sexual fixation involving women’s bodies that remained secret throughout their 15-year relationship. Since…
"I Choose You" Means Nothing If His Eyes and Actions Keep Choosing Others!

September 16, 2026 · 42 min

(Episode 350) For a betrayed partner, few things are more painful than hearing, “I choose you,” while continuing to discover that her partner’s eyes, attention, sexuality, and actions are still being directed toward other women. In this…
His Relapses Hurt, but Ongoing Lies and Manipulation of Reality are the Real Crisis!

September 8, 2026 · 41 min

(Episode 349) Relapse in pornography or sex addiction absolutely matters, but it is often not the most fundamental threat to a relationship. The deeper crisis is what happens when relapse is followed by secrecy, lying, minimizing…
Is it My Job to Educate My Addict Partner about My Betrayal Trauma & My Boundaries?

August 31, 2026 · 44 min

(Episode 348) A betrayed partner who has a history of neglect, abuse, people-pleasing, or self-abandonment may find it especially difficult to identify and defend her own wants, needs, and boundaries after betrayal. She may feel compelled…
Can my Partner with 2 Decades of Porn Use & Years of Secrecy & Lying Genuinely Recover?

August 25, 2026 · 43 min

In Episode 347, a betrayed partner who recently ended a three-year relationship asks whether her former partner can genuinely recover after more than two decades of compulsive pornography use, high-risk sexual behaviors, drug-fueled acting…
If He Doesn't Think Porn Is Bad, Can He Still Truly Recover??

August 17, 2026 · 39 min

In Episode 346, a betrayed partner wonders whether her husband can genuinely recover from pornography addiction when he admits that lying, hiding, gaslighting, and hurting her are wrong but still insists that pornography itself is not…
My Addiction Shattered My Wife; She Wants a Divorce, but I Don't. Now What?!

August 11, 2026 · 43 min

In episode 345, a couple is facing the enormous aftermath of pornography addiction, sexual betrayal, deception, failed disclosure, and trickle truth. The husband reports that he is now 18 months sober, has become rigorously honest and…

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About the show

Two sex addicts in long-term successful recovery are ALSO world-class Counselors who specialize in porn and sex addiction recovery. Drawing on 40 years of combined personal and professional experience, Mark and Steve get RAW and REAL about HOW to overcome addiction, heal betrayal trauma and save your marriage. If you're struggling with addiction—we get it. Recovery is hard. We've been there. We'll help you take the fight to your addiction like never before. If you're married to an addict—we KNOW what it's like to nearly destroy a marriage! We'll help you understand the world of your husband's addiction and begin healing your betrayal trauma, regardless of what he decides to do. You don't have to stay stuck. You don't have to keep suffering. We've made all the mistakes so you don't have to. Take back your life. Take back your marriage. Let's do this together! This is the PBSE podcast.