Huberman Lab
Scicomm Media
Health & Fitness
Pillow Talks
by Vanessa & Xander Marin
Today: #122 in Health & Fitness on our combined chart.
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| Date | Apple Podcasts |
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| Oct 2 | #92 |
About the show
Meet Vanessa and Xander Marin, your new BFF couple friends! She’s a sex therapist with 20 years of experience and he’s a regular dude. Together they’re the shockingly open, slightly nerdy, and seriously funny couple you want to grab sushi with. They share the ups and downs in their relationship while giving you step-by-step techniques for improving yours. Subscribe for your weekly double date full of totally do-able sex tips, practical relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on behind closed bedroom doors, and so much more. It’s the sex education you WISH you’d had!
Latest episodes
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E280: The Initiation Mistakes You Don’t Even Realize You’re Making
October 1, 2026 · 47 minInitiating sex in your relationship should feel exciting, not frustrating. But for most couples, it’s anything but smooth. Whether you're feeling stuck, rejected, or just plain awkward when it comes to getting things started in the…
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E279: Ask a Sex Therapist: Kink Icks, Spicy Pics, and Vanilla Sex
September 24, 2026 · 1 hr 2 minWould you tell your partner if their kink gave you the ick? What if their foreplay technique wasn't quite doing it for you? And is it normal for sex to be just okay most of the time? Oh, we've got some GOOD questions for you today. We're…
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E278: How to Get Out of a Relationship Rut: Your 4-Week Plan
September 17, 2026 · 52 minYour conversations have turned into a running list of who's handling what, and your quality time is two people on one couch looking at two different screens. 44% of the couples we polled said they're in a rut right now too. So we built…
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E277: How to Take Your Orgasm to the Next Level with the Four Orgasm Amplifiers
September 10, 2026 · 52 minEvery once in a while an orgasm hits you like a freight train, and you lie there afterward wondering what on earth that was and why you can't do it again. What if that wasn't luck? In this episode, you'll hear: Why getting really…
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E276: How Do You Turn Your Partner On? (When You've Been Together For Years)
September 3, 2026 · 50 minAt the start of a relationship, turning your partner on felt like it took basically no effort. So what do you do a decade in, when you've watched each other fart and floss, and nothing seems to happen on its own anymore? In this episode…
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E275: Reasonable or Ridiculous? Sex Quotas, Oral Every Time, and Dirty Talk Dealbreakers
August 27, 2026 · 50 minIt's time for another round of Reasonable or Ridiculous, where we take real life couple disagreements our community members just can't settle and play referee. In this episode, you'll hear: Can you ask your partner to start initiating…
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E274: Is it Normal to Not Orgasm During Sex? We Got Attacked for Talking About This
August 20, 2026 · 1 hr 6 minWe recently shared a reel answering a question from a woman who didn’t orgasm during sex. The comments section turned into something we've never experienced in over ten years of doing this, including one accusation we still can't believe…
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E273: How to Try New Sex Positions Without Killing the Mood
August 13, 2026 · 1 hr 0 minThis week we're answering all your questions about trying new positions, from how to introduce something new when you've been together forever, to why switching things up can kill the mood, to the pillow trick that changes everything, plus…