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Not As We Planned

by Tash Gershfield & Carly Harris

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About the show

New episodes every Thursday, with exclusive bonus episodes every Monday on Patreon. Welcome to Not As We Planned, the honest podcast about relationships, dating, marriage, divorce and motherhood, and all the things no one really talks about. From becoming a mum and navigating divorce, to rebuilding life as a single mum and dating again in your 30s, we’re sharing the real, messy and unexpected sides of it all. Life doesn’t always go to plan, and neither do relationships. This is a space for open conversations, shared experiences and saying the things most people avoid. If you have a question or want to share your story, email us at notasweplannedpodcast@gmail.com Join Our Community Get our weekly BONUS episode: https://patreon.com/c/NotAsWePlanned Follow the Podcast: @notasweplanned_podcast Tash: @tash_blake_ivy Carly: @iamcarlyharris Get the Planner: https://notasweplanned.shop Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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