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by Jay-Jay Feeney & Melissa Vranjes
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About the show
How To Have Sex is the sex education you never got at school, and have been quietly winging ever since. Hosted by broadcaster Jay-Jay Feeney and certified somatic sex and relationship coach Melissa Vranjes. One very curious host and one expert who actually knows the answers. Every episode tackles a real topic: how to improve your sex life, how to talk about intimacy without killing the mood, how to have better orgasms, how to spice things up in a long-term relationship.... you get the idea. Shame-free, refreshingly practical, and occasionally so mortifying you'll need to pause it. New episodes weekly.Hosted by:Jay-Jay Feeney - 30+ years in radio, trusted voice for Kiwi women.Melissa Vranjes - Certified Sex & Relationship Coach, featured in VOGUE & GRAZIATogether, we combine humour and expert knowledge to normalise conversations around sexual wellness.Breaking taboos. Building confidence. Supporting modern intimacy. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.