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An Unexpected Break: Podcast and Personal Update
May 4, 2026 · 13 minEpisode 169 I've been quiet for the past month without an announced break. In this shorter episode I share with you the reason for my silence as well as an update about what's happening in the podcast. Watch this recording on…
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Why Deconstruction is an Essential Part of Complex Trauma Recovery (with New Introduction)
March 23, 2026 · 51 minEpisode 168 In this re-sharing of a Season 10 episode, I explore why deconstruction is a necessary part of healing from complex trauma — especially for people of faith. I define deconstruction as questioning assumptions we've never…
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Deconstruction as Differentiation and Individuation
March 9, 2026 · 55 minEpisode 167 In this episode, I'm exploring deconstruction through the lens of differentiation and individuation—two psychological concepts that have profoundly shaped my faith journey. For years, I related to Catholicism the way I related…
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Tasting the Fruit of Healing from Emotionally Immature Parents
March 4, 2026 · 10 minEpisode 166 In this bonus mini-episode, I share what it's like to taste the fruit of a nine year long interior integration and healing process of my family of origin complex trauma. I describe in concrete terms what this feels like in my…
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Deconstructing: 'God' vs 'Christianity / Catholicism'
February 23, 2026 · 48 minEpisode 165 Have you ever wondered why some people deconstruct not only their religion but also their entire faith in God, while others deconstruct aspects of organised religion yet retain a relationship with the divine or even with the…
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How Moral Injury Can Lead to Deconstruction
February 9, 2026 · 55 minEpisode 164 In this episode, I talk about how moral injury can be connected to or trigger deconstruction. This is a topic that has been deeply significant in my own journey of interior integration and healing. Moral injury is the damage…
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Why It's So Hard to Explain Deconstruction
January 26, 2026 · 1 hr 5 minEpisode 163 In this episode, I dive into one of the most challenging aspects of deconstruction: trying to explain it to others who haven't experienced it themselves. I respond to a thoughtful question from a follower about how to remain…
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Deconstruction: A Trauma-Informed, Integrative and First-Hand Perspective
January 12, 2026 · 1 hr 4 minEpisode 162 Welcome to my first episode of 2026! After a six-week break, I'm returning with greater clarity and readiness to share about a topic I've been living through: deconstruction. In this episode, I'm opening up about my personal…
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Healing and Repenting from Abuse of Conscience
October 6, 2025 · 55 minEpisode 158 In this episode, I continue the discussion on spiritual abuse by focusing on Abuse of Conscience. I share my personal journey of discovering this subtle yet pervasive form of abuse, how it affected my life, and my path to…
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Using Power and Influence in Non-Spiritually Abusive Ways
September 22, 2025 · 37 minEpisode 157 In this episode, I build on my last episode’s discussion of how culture, disembodied faith, and trauma contribute to an environment conducive to spiritual abuse. I delve into the responsible use of power and influence, sharing…
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How Culture, Disembodied Faith and Trauma Facilitate Spiritual Abuse
September 8, 2025 · 56 minEpisode 156 In this episode, I delve into three factors that facilitate spiritual abuse, especially within the experience of many Catholics. Reflecting on a personal experience during a silent retreat, I explore how complex trauma…
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Spiritual Abuse in Evangelisation and Discipleship (with Paul Fahey)
August 25, 2025 · 1 hr 36 minEpisode 155 In this episode, Paul Fahey joins me in a pivotal conversation about spiritual abuse within the context of evangelisation and church communities. We share our journey from years of traditional evangelisation to a deeper…

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