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Ask the Unfaithful

by James & Sam
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  • TRICKLE TRUTH: Why Staggered Disclosures Re-Traumatize Betrayed Partners in the Worst Way

    September 23, 2026 · 45 min

    Why can trickle truth feel even more devastating than discovering the affair itself? For many betrayed partners, discovery is not a single event. First comes the affair. Then another detail emerges. Weeks later, another confession…

  • 4 MISTAKES THAT PREVENT COUPLES FROM HEALING FROM INFIDELITY

    September 10, 2026 · 31 min

    Are you actually moving forward in betrayal recovery or are you rushing to avoid discomfort? After infidelity, many unfaithful partners enter recovery with sincere intentions. They want healing, forgiveness, trust, and some sense of…

  • THE VICTIM MINDSET: WHY THE UNFAITHFUL WHINES, BLAMES, AND ISN'T EMPATHETIC

    August 26, 2026 · 43 min

    What if the biggest obstacle to your recovery isn't shame, defensiveness, or even your affair - but believing you're the victim? Many unfaithful partners experience real grief, shame, fear, and emotional pain after discovery.  But when…

  • 4 WAYS THE UNFAITHFUL MINIMIZE AND DEFLECT

    August 12, 2026 · 30 min

    Why does recovery stall even when you're trying? If you're the unfaithful partner, you may genuinely want to heal your relationship—but without realizing it, you could be making four common mistakes that keep your betrayed partner feeling…

  • 4 WAYS THE UNFAITHFUL LEARNED IT WAS OKAY TO CHEAT

    July 29, 2026 · 39 min

    HOW DID THE UNFAITHFUL LEARN THAT INFIDELITY WAS OKAY? Can your childhood make you more prone to infidelity? Not by causing you to cheat, but by shaping how you learned to handle shame, conflict, rejection, loneliness, and emotional…

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About the show

The Ask The Unfaithful Podcast, is a safe place for both Unfaithful and Betrayed Partners to find hope and healing. This podcast draws on both our personal and professional experience to provide expert insight into the mind of the Unfaithful, and how their behaviors traumatically affect the life, heart and even brain plasticity of Betrayed Partners. Ask the Unfaithful is hosted by two Unfaithfuls in long-term recovery, James and Sam: Therapist and coach James Annear who co-owns CORE Relationship Recovery with his wife, Sharon Rinearson. They have been helping couples recover from the traumatic impacts of infidelity, sexually compulsive behaviors and addiction for over a decade. Formerly with Affair Recovery and now host of Sam's Healing Podcast, Sam has been producing videos for almost 10 years and helping to care for those in crisis due to infidelity and addiction for almost 15 years.